How to Reduce Jealousy between Siblings
Muffled jealousy between siblings need extra patience. When Moms improper handling, jealousy could be worst. Check
out some tips to reduce jealousy between siblings.
Never leave your kids without supervision
Never leave your kids playing without supervision, because maybe your older kids did not mean any harm or hurt his younger siblings when plays.
Do
not give excessive responsibility to the older kid
Having a younger brother and share all his parents attention sometime unbearable for your older kids, so
do
not give excessive responsibility for him to taking care his younger brother. Ask him first whether he want to help you to taking care his little brother.
Do not make him feel alienated
Maybe you can involve him on your activity of taking care his younger brother, for example : when you feeding your younger kids ask your older son which is he also wants to feed his brother and explain that you still feeding his brother because he can't do by himself and your older son is great of being a brother who can eat by himself and sometimes can help you feeding his younger brother.
Do not easily judge that your older kid are naughty
when there a problem between your kids or your younger son cry while play with his older brother, do not jump on conclusion that your older kid are naughty but find out the cause.
Ask for help to your husband
Do not hesitate to ask your husband help, when suddenly the younger one needs you, while you're helping the older, ask for his help to taking care your younger child, so his brother will not feel ignored.
Keep doing the same activity with your older kid
Keep doing all the same activities as when he is not yet have a little brother. For
example, when in the morning, usually you make sandwiches and milk for him and
drive him to school, then this activity should be continue even you have another baby so he will feel that the presence of his brother doesn't takes all his Moms attention.
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